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The mantra of an American in Britain: I'm ok… I'm ok… I'm ok…

2008 December 17
by yankeebean

yankeebeanAs an American woman in Britain, I’m constantly saying in my own head – “I’m ok”.

Whenever I speak a little loudly and people turn to look at me like I’m a 10-car-pile-up — “I’m ok”

Whenever I walk up to someone, try to shake their hand, and they pause as if wondering if I’m contagious — “I’m ok”

Whenever I laugh loudly (or normally, as I would call it) at someone’s joke and they’re eyebrows twitch ever so slightly – “I’m ok”

I’m actually thinking of having a t-shirt made… anyone else want one?

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  1. December 17, 2008

    I’d prefer one with “I’m ok” over one that had “I’m good” on it.

  2. pacificyorkshirebird permalink
    December 17, 2008

    Yes – I also say “I’m ok” outloud when asked “you alright?”

    May I also have a t-shirt that says “I can smell your cigarette from all the way over here.” I always think that when someone is smoking within 100 yards of me. I don’t think they know how far that smell travels.

  3. December 21, 2008

    maybe people just look at you funny because your a breath of fresh air… and its just unexpected….??

    But, yes, I constantly have to keep myself “ok” and accept that I am American and just do things MY WAY. And thats OKAY!

  4. January 8, 2009

    This made me laugh because my boyfriend (from England) is constantly asking me if I’m ok.

  5. Alex T permalink
    January 10, 2009

    I stumbled across your website by accident and have enjoyed it immensely. But I’m afraid I don’t understand the situation over “ok”. Is it something Brits just don’t say? Is it offensive over there?

  6. January 20, 2009

    Hi Alex–
    oh I can see how confused you could be..
    Here in Britain, people say “Are you ok?” as a greeting which translates to “How are you?”.
    If you don’t know the translation, you might be annoyed. When I first moved here I wanted to say “Why, don’t i look okay?” I am FINE!
    Hope that clears things up… if not, maybe you just need to be in Britain to understand the context…;)

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